I called my friend in NJ this afternoon and he seems as much in the depths as I am. I could even hear it in his voice. I feel less like a freak when I speak to him since he literally understands me. Even down to my eroding teeth from years of bruxism.
I’ve been feeling more and more like a freak of late.
K is going to have a lung biopsy in Chapel Hill and she wants me to go with her, but if only I take the stray in we’ve been feeding since 2015. Do I be a good friend in spite of my fears and do as she asks or do I let her navigate her struggles alone. It’s doubtful she has cancer and sarcoid too, surely. Her mother died of lung cancer, K. doesn’t smoke though.
Occasionally, I have a dream about being alone after my mom died. When I wake up, it takes a moment to realize that I’m safe, that I survived. I don’t know what will happen if K. dies. No human will need me anymore, just my cats. I couldn’t leave my cats.
I met a nice woman at Burger King several days ago, an 80 year-old Mexican Jehovah’s witness. She was easy to talk to once the initial fear of having to talk to a stranger subsided. She was impressed that I knew so much about her faith. She talked about her life, her son. She was waiting for Kingdom Hall. She gave me her number. I might text her the next time I’m at BK. Too shy to otherwise, but the premise of being where we met might make me able to text her again. Maybe. It takes me forever to be sure people just aren’t being kind. I think most people just tolerate me, even K.
I’ve been getting an influx of subscribers on my YouTube since I made myself into a dancing bear singing songs horribly. I’m happy, but thought I’d feel more fulfillment at being recognized for something. When I daydream I imagine becoming famous for being an e celebrity, that I write something important, or become famous for being unusual on camera. Just anything to make people notice that I exist. I’m sorry I’m so morose.
I released another haul video today but haven’t shared it around because I admit to being a little down. And then there’s the shitty covers. Released a few of those too.
This song I released around the 4th. Not bad. Not good, but not bad.