She accused me of not caring about her cat and never being there for her, never taking responsibility for anything. I asked if she remembered everything she did to me over Christmas, but she said I should look at it from her point of view.

I snapped and basically told her I blame her for Oscar. Now she says he was just like me: selfish, etc.

I walked it back. She’s already said next time my cats get sick don’t come to her for help ( I doubt she means that). I doubt she’ll get me the new pair of glasses now. One of my lenses is missing.

I really am a cunt. If I lose her, there’s no one else.